Dr Carl Leonard

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.

Let them go.

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4. FISHING FOR COMPLIMENTS.

This is something that can drive a man crazy. Here is a typical example: The guy you’re dating, looks at you and says, “You really look beautiful tonite.”

Ten minutes later, you ask how he thinks your dress looks, your hair, etc. Let the compliments come from the heart.

Allow us to compliment you, when we really mean it. If we don’t give a compliment, at the exact moment you desire it, just accept it and be okay with that.

5. PUSHING FRIENDS ON HIM.

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D-r Carl Leonard, Ph.D

This article is aimed at warnings to women. It could apply either way. The choice is yours.

You’re dating a guy, and it’s the crucial, first few weeks. You really like this guy, and you’re wondering what you can do (or avoid doing) to keep this relationship going, and not scare him away.

The truth is, there are certain things women can do, that will scare men away. Don’t sabotage a potentially great relationship, that could have gone somewhere, by scaring a man off right at the beginning.

1. TRASH TALKING YOUR EX

Don’t talk negatively, about an ex-boyfriend, in front of a guy you’re dating. I don’t care if you’re on your first date, or your fifteenth date with a guy, don’t ever trash talk your ex.

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Dr. Carl Leonard has an earned MBA from the University of Chicago and an earned Ph.D. in Organization Management from Oxford University in England. He has most recently served as the CEO for The Ten Commandments of Business; also the title of a book he has written.

While in this capacity he has served as a coach, counselor, conducted seminars, and done much public speaking.

While serving with the Leonard Group in Illinois, he focused on productivity in sales, management, and production areas within the Fortune 500 arena. Some of his former clients include: ABC Television and Radio, Ford Motor Company, Eddie Bauer, Purex Corporation, Siemens Corporation, Hilton International Corporation, Nestle Company, and Ralston Purina Company.

In 1989, he co-authored a publication entitled “Sales Training in America”, distributed by Executive Knowledge Works. In 2003, his latest publication, “The Ten Commandments of Business” was released for distribution worldwide.

The outline for my remarks will be:

A. Purpose - To familiarize men and women, Internationally, with all the elements connected with dating; from when we start thinking about dating, all the way to thinking about marriage.

B. Process - A weekly series of articles, will be appearing on this website. They will not necessarily follow the dating cycle. Moreover, they will tend to cover a myriad of subjects, randomly. Thus, we encourage you to be sure and take advantage of each publication.

C. Payoff - You will receive the information you need, to approach the dating process, equipped to make intelligent choices, in your own best interests.

Come with us now, as we get started.

Most single men will stop at nothing, to wow the pants off you, during your first date, which includes lying thru their teeth. At other times, fibs are used to sidestep less than desirable situations. And though it would be impossible to convey all the untruths uttered by guys, what follows are a few of the more common ones.

DATING LIE #1: “I’m between jobs.”

Don’t let a lie like this get lost in translation. When a dude feeds you this one, what he’s really trying to say is, “I have no clue what I want to do with my life.” A man says, “A few years ago I was collecting unemployment and crashing on friends couches.” He says, “I had zero direction, but it wasn’t like I could confess that to a girl without her thinking I was a total loser. Saying I was between jobs was the best way to sugarcoat my situation.”

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The scammers main tool is affection, devotion, and later love which he displays to his victims in a series of letters, mailed at the rate of one per day.

The level of affection grows with each letter, and women who are lonely or unhappy with their lives, soon find themselves dependent on the regular receipt of these letters, which they think are addressed exclusively to them, but in reality are templates with their names inserted in appropriate places.

Dispersed amongst the paragraphs describing how the sender is falling in love with the victim, there is usually a light description of a business of a business venture, as if the sender is describing intimate details of his business activities, so the victim feels that her role is to support and advise him.

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